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Year 1969 –
5425 Broadway
Mishawaka, Indiana

My 90-Day Plymouth

Once I got everyone paid off, I bought a new car: a 1970 Plymouth Sport Fury.

While the car was brand new and before I had the plates, I drove it around just to see the South Bend area and try the car out.  I was stopped by the local police for not having license plates.  I was arrested, the car towed, and taken to the local night court at somebody’s house.  I learned that in Indiana, they had Justices of the Peace that dished out instant justice.  I was fined for not having plates that I had to pay then and there.  I might have not been hauled in if I could have produced the purchase and registration application but I forgot where in the car they were.  I thought under the front seat but in my confusion about being stopped and my fear of police, I could not find them.  They were not in the glove box.

The cops drove me home.  The next day I went to the tow truck place to pick up my car.  I knew the papers were there someplace.  I found them and the tow truck place released the car to me:  that was the rule produce papers or they kept the car until I did.  The tow place charged me half price because I was a good guy and they did not like the police any better than I did.

Once or twice I drove to Madison with my new car.  One weekend it was seriously cold and had snowed.  Connie and I and a few others hopped in the car, drove around town, and helped people stuck in the snow to get unstuck.  The problem I had then was my Pepsi.  Soda was going to disposible bottles.  The returnable bottles were very heavy glass.  The disposible bottles  were thin.  They broke when the soda froze.  Pepsi has a lot of sugar which makes it freeze at a lower temperature than plain water but when the bottle breaks, there is a mess on my back carpets.  If I caught the breakage before it thawed, it was just a matter of cleaning up glass and ice.  If it thawed, I had to extract the soda from the carpet.  This was never easy nor fun.

I now parked my car next to but not in the executive parking lot.  People started saying good morning to me that never had before.  Foo.

Then one weekend, Easter Weekend, I drove to Madison.  Or at least I started to.  I left very early Good Friday morning and me being cheap, took US 20 across Indiana towards Chicago.  I never took the Indiana toll road as I thought the toll road was illegally charging for its use.  I made it as far as Michigan City when my world changed.

I had done this many times.  There was a point where the highway crossed the train tracks.  Many years ago this had been a grade crossing.  The road had run parallel to the tracks on the north side since South Bend.  It was now crossing to the south side.  The road made an s-curve so that it crossed the tracks at a ninety-degree angle.  You did not want to speed through this s-curve when the grade crossing was there.  But now there was an underpass for the road.  It expanded the curve a little but it was still something you drove with some caution.  You could not see it coming as the road took a sudden dip to go under the tracks at the same time it curved to the left.  Under the bridge it then curved back to the right as you came back up next to the tracks but on the other side.  Big concrete walls under the bridge.  A gas station just west of the crossing and the curves.

In any case, this morning, I went around and under and was faced with a 3-foot or higher wall of ice and snow.  Not a chance I could see it ahead of time.  It had not snowed for a day so there was only one way it could get there.  During the night a train plow had cleared the tracks and spewed this collection of ice and junk over the bridge and down onto the road.  I was the first to try to cross it.

I hit the wall of ice and went into a spin.  The road was 4 lanes at this point.  I started in the right lane, spun around a few times and ended up in the far left lane.  Wow.  I made it.  Then the world went black.  I never saw the semi that I hit.  I only saw my car collapsing and then I died.

I found out much later that the gas station had made multiple calls to the highway patrol trying to get the road cleared.  The highway patrol ticketed me for falling asleep as the reason for not making the curve.  Asleep?  It was five in the morning and I was at my best or I would not have recovered that spin.  I hate liars.  Especially liars in a position of authority.  Espcially when they are copping out of their responsibility.  But then I found this all out about a year after the accident when I obtained a copy of my driving record and the accident report.

In any case, I was now dead.  The car was a total wreck.  I used to have pictures.  The car's front end was so collapsed that the passenger side headrest was wrapped up in the windshield molding.  I remember because later we extricated my sport coat with great difficulty.  Most of my belongings had been recovered by the tow truck driver – after he had scared away the local Indiana residents who were robbing things out of the car while I was still in it, dead.

Well, not really dead.  The police had not bothered to see if I had survived.  They presumed I was dead.  Their mistake could have been fatal.  The tow truck driver noticed that I was still breathing and called for help.  I was admitted to Memorial Hospital in Michigan City 3 hours after the accident.  God had a reason for me to still be alive.

Easter Sunday morning I came out of the coma.  I had to be reassured that I was waking up after the accident because I remembered dying in the accident.  At the time I had asked God to tell the girls (Connie and friends) that I was OK, just dead.  Thank you, God, for the good life.

But I woke up.  I had a 3-inch bruise around my waist from the seat belt.  No shoulder harness because in those days the shoulder harness was a separate belt with no impact expansion.  With the shoulder harness on, I could barely reach the steering wheel.  I could not reach the dash panel.  I never wore the shoulder harness as it made it impossible to drive.  Maybe I would have been saved the concussion – something the hospital had no interest I treating.  They checked for potential internal injuries from the seat belt and a few cuts and scrapes and sent me home when I recovered from the coma.

I had some cuts on my right wrist from the carburetor trying to get to the back seat.  I had major chips of glass embedded throughout my scalp.  It turned out that I had hit my head on the windshield molding and then bounced into the glass.  This left me with a serious concussion but the glass had not punctured my skull nor had it gotten to my eyes.

Waking up on Easter Sunday made me sure that God was watching out for me.

The hospital in the mean time had done me no other favors.  I had a little blue book in my wallet with lots of names of friends.  They called every name in the book asking for my parents.  My parents’ name was not in my book.  The hospital clerk was very rude in their calls. They identified themselves only as ‘Memorial Hospital’ and when the subject of the call could not identify my parents, they hung up with no more words.  This made all of my friends get very worried.  One friend called back: Gary Leive.  He got an operator to work with him and called every hospital from Milwaukee and Madison to South Bend having Memorial in its name.  He told me that there were 51 such hospitals just in Chicago.  But he was there the day I woke up.  I have never had many friends but the friends I do have are the premium type of friend.  Thanks, Gary.

Another good friend was Rod Reber.  He was a manager at Bendix in the programming area.  He was there.  Since I turned off and on like a light switch for a couple of days, I do not know how much Gary and Rod were at my bedside.  I was released on Tuesday under the care of Rod.  We first went to the junk yard to recover my belongings from the car, took a few pictures, and then returned to my apartment in Mishawaka.

Rod picked me up and delivered me for the next several days.  This was a great friend.  I really could not work much as I still turned on and off like a light bulb.  My memory was shot.  But by being in the office, people could make sure I did not drop dead in my apartment when nobody was looking.  Thank you Emery Johnson, Bob Ball, and the rest of my management for paying me while they babysat me.

I saw a doctor, an expensive doctor.  He told me that the concussion was serious and that I needed to care for it.  Sleep as much as possible.  Eat good meals.  Watch the exercise level.  He told me that I would randomly black out and told me that my memories would probably come back.

I made the mistake of calling my parents the next week.  They drove down in their new Dodge Challenger and took me back to Green Bay.  No input from me.  Nothing.  They just did it.  Finally in Chicago, I convinced them that this was not acceptable and I considered it kidnapping.  They drove me to Connie’s in Madison and she cared for me for the weekend.

The girls (Connie's roommates) were assigned to watch me since my behavior was unpredictable.  In fact one afternoon I woke up in the middle of the Interstate median and they came and got me.  One of the girls was in trouble for not watching close enough.  I had no idea how I got 5 miles away in the middle of the grass median.

I took the Greyhound back to South Bend.  Or at least I think so.  I was rousted by the Chicago police for vagrancy when I could not find my wallet.  I found it outside the station I my backpack.  The police let me return and wait for the bus but suggested I not go back to sleep.

The memory problems continued.  I went to my deviant sociology class and picked up my 12-week exam.  The day prior to the final exam.  I did not remember taking this exam.  I went to the dean (who was also my prof) and asked to drop the course with an incomplete on the absolute last day of the school year.  He permitted this with some reluctance.  Understandable.  But I never would remember anything useful from that class as the last third I missed a lot and my memory was defunct.

The Plymouth dealer had called and told me they would replace the car with whatever I could wangle out of the insurance company.  This was really great of them because I had always bitched about the amount of time they had the car to repair problems and we would be starting all over again.  Also the initial settlement suggestion by the insurance company was for $2,800.  This really made me angry: half the price for a 90-day old car.  I told them to talk to the dealer.  They upped the price to $4,300.  This paid off most of the loan.  I did not want to go through another session with warrantee repairs and the gas costs were running me broke.

Gas?  Gasoline had gone up to 29.9¢ per gallon for regular -- and this car required premium.  The car got 8 miles per gallon in the city and 18 on the highway.  And what I heard about high-performance cars was true: if it did not get a good highway run once a week, it clogged up and the city mileage got much worse.  When I got a new car, it would have better mileage.

My Opel

I took the bus to Milwaukee and bought my new car: an orange Opel GT.

Panama

In June or July, Gary Leive passed through town on his way to Miami.  The Army had sent him to Panama.  I think he had a red Mustang but it could have been anything.  We looked at the moon that night: it was the night of the famous astronaut moonwalk.  He was leaving his fiancé in Rochester.  I forget her name.  She was a good woman.

IUSB

I enjoyed life at the University extension so much that I signed up for an additional course in deviant sociology in January.  Also in January the University Wisconsin sent me a diploma.  I took the diploma and never looked back.

<>During the semester I learned a lot I enjoyed sociology and the professor was good.  In the basement of the classroom building there was a big room with a soda fountain.  I met several friends including a girl named Pam.  I went out with Pam several times but we would never have a serious relationship. 
<>Susan had become pregnant and had an abortion.  This abortion upset me then and I still get upset when I think about it now.  You must know that this was before the Roe versus Wade court decision.  In Madison there was a woman who performed abortions.  This was highly illegal, cost a lot of money, and was dangerous.  I offered to pay half the cost of the abortion if she had it with a doctor.  There was a doctor in the Chicago area who performed abortions that were medically sterile.  They agreed upon a price, I sent the money, and when she arrived, the doctor wanted additional money.  From the previous text you know that I was very broke: this was all the money that I had -- I could not even borrow more. She paid the additional hundred dollars and remained angry at me forever.  We never spoke again.  This was sad but understandable.  Yes, there was no doubt the baby was mine.  I would have married Susan. I would have married Susan just long enough to have the baby.  But she insisted on the abortion -- so she had the best abortion that we could get for her.  I always felt guilty about this but I did not have a choice after she was pregnant.

 

Susan had gotten pregnant in the first time that we had sex.  At the time unmarried people buying condoms in Wisconsin was illegal.  After the first time I bought condoms in South Bend.  But by then she was already pregnant.  I must say that the first time having sex with Susan was the most enjoyable sex that I have ever had in my lifetime.

<>But Susan was part of a past life -- at this point I now lived in South Bend and I was now going out with Pam.  Even still I could never take them seriously.  After having broken up with Susan, I went back to missing Janne.  Interestingly enough at University extension there was a house.  I had learned at UW-M that many universitys owned houses adjacent to their campus.  These houses were maintained and leased to professors or other university personnel in the expectation that campus expansion would eventually plow these houses under.  In this case a student group had convinced the dean to let them use the House as a student commons for studying and entertainment.  A student named Karen Fisher had accomplished this but now she lived in Chicago and was a modeling student.  This impacted my life in two ways.

 

I joined a group that was active at this house.  We had song fests on Friday nights.  We had to be careful to keep the sound level down so that we would not upset the neighbors.  We had to appeal to the dean to keep our house but that was successful.  Drugs were problem.  Upstairs was a problem.  We said people who insisted on using drugs to my apartment.  Not real bright but it worked.

<>There was another girl named Karen and a boy named Chris will maintain order at my apartment.  Karen did a good job of keeping my apartment clean and the drugs hidden.  Karen and Chris got married and had an early baby.


One evening I returned from the University house and found police surrounding my house on the street and in the alley.  They were unaware of the party going on in my apartment but there was a stolen car in the alley.  Instead of going in the house I hopped in my car and drove to Madison for the weekend.  When I returned, my part was clean, no drugs, and I went back to work at Bendix as usual.

<>At the University house Karen was legend.  Pam knew where Karen lived.  So one Saturday Pam and I went to Chicago.  We arrived just after dark at the neighborhood near Wrigley Stadium.  These were big rowhouses and we found a parking space about two blocks away from the apartment.  We found a hole in the fence and walked through one of the rowhouses.  So we are in a strange section of town and it is dark and we have just walked through the basement of a house and are walking back up the steps to the front.  Just as we arrived at the top step, we saw two men having a fight.  The further one had a big knife; the closer one had a big chain.  We were in trouble.  Either of them could have attacked us thinking that we were friends of the other combatant.  So I grabbed Pam hard so that she lets out a high-pitched squeal.  And we jumped down a couple more steps.  The two men saw us and continued their fight at some distance.  We walked up the street and knocked on Karen's door.  Karen and her roommate were home and we enjoyed a pleasant time with them.  Karen and I became immediate friends. 
<>I and others from South Bend spent many pleasant Saturdays at Karen after this.  After my new Plymouth arrived, Karen and I went to a party one Saturday night.  The problem was that the street address we were given and the directions to get there did not match.  We were at a very large apartment complex and walked through the halls looking for our party.  We did not find the original party but we started our own and had a good evening and got back to her apartment about midnight.  We found a party going on at her apartment.  It turned out that someone had broken into her apartment and her neighbors and scared them off.  But neighbors then remained to make sure that the burglars did not return. <> 

One of the men who occasioned to Karen's apartment was a narcotics officer on the
Chicago police force.  I suspect that he was one of the people that were at the parties at my apartment occasionally in South Bend.  He was known to distribute the drugs but he collected.  He was a really nice guy -- and I never think of policeman is nice guys.  One Saturday I arrived at Karen's and found him sitting in a stupor in the middle of the room.  I asked Karen and she explained to me that during a marijuana bust the previous day he had shot and killed someone.  The shooting was justified as the man had shot at him first.  Nevertheless, shooting and killing someone is a serious emotional event and making it worse was that it was a marijuana bust and not a more serious drug bust.  I hope he recovered okay.  Like I said he was a nice guy. <> 

Karen was engaged to a student from
Notre Dame University.  He disliked me very much.  After they got married he made a very clear that I should never see Karen again.  After graduation he was drafted by the Los Angeles Rams football team.  Since I never heard the name Gary Kos, I presume that he never made it as a professional football player and maintained a profession based upon his education.  I called Karen once a year after they got married and she sounded unhappy.  I have discovered an good number of women after being married approximately 1 year begin to worry about what will happen for the rest of their life.  Then things settle out and things work out.

<>Oh!  The Easter egg.  The Easter egg was set to expire on Labor Day.  This gave them six months of using the programs and to have gotten me my paycheck.  They used the program but did not send the paycheck.


So I showed up the following week and demanded my paycheck.  After the third office they wrote me my check and I showed them how to remove the Easter egg.  I hate Easter eggs.  I had worked hard for these programs and deserved to be paid.

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Written:  2004          Updated: October 14, 2005                Back To Top